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Should I go here for my 50th Birthday?

Monday, March 1st, 2010 by Maryam Webster

In case you missed all the clues I’ve been dropping on Twitter, FaceBook, LinkedIn and other places, I am going to be spending my birthday month of APRIL IN PARIS, baby! Paris! (pictoral tour of the ‘hood is down below) Yep, I’m leaving the hubby and kitties at home and going on an all-inclusive American Woman’s Dream Vacation of a Lifetime to celebrate that once in a lifetime marker for a woman:

TURNING 50 YEARS OLD
(made it…whew!)

And…stay tuned because I’m going to make it possible for YOU TO COME WITH ME. Yep, you read it right,

YOU CAN COME TO PARIS WITH ME!

While not everyone can jump a jet and get in on the live experience, you CAN check it out with me, and won’t have to leave the comfort of your armchair. Promise. I wouldn’t go without making it possible everyone interested in evolution, transformation, a LIVE ETHOS workshop, new friends, gourmet food, sexy accents and having a good time to get in on the fun!

Hold onto your hats: there’s more juice in this baby than a whole orchard full of fresh peaches!

You probably already know that 25 years ago I was hit by a drunk driver and paralyzed, gaining over 150lbs. And how it took me nine years to walk, even though the doctors said I would never walk again.

I’ll be teaching some super-secrets of how I taught myself how to do “the impossible” and reverse paralysis, PLUS how I’ve lost 70+ pounds in the last year and a bit. Add to that my own “energy facelift” exercises and how YOU too can learn to:

“ACHIEVE THE IMPOSSIBLE”

  • Everybody’s been asking me why my pants are falling off! You’ll be able to model my success as I CONTINUE TO LOSE WEIGHT in Paris, scarfing down all that lovely gluten-free super-fresh French market food. I’ll teach you how to make some of my favorite yummy dishes too, so you get “Gourmet Paris” and “GlutenFree” too.
  • Yes, I’m down four sizes and counting. You’ll learn some of my extra cool weightloss secrets and be able to climb inside my head to see my Body Communication & Shape Shifting program in the making. This is Practical Magic folks, for everyday comfort and best-living.
  • Plus you’ll visit Parisian restaurants, get to meet neighbors and friends and get the scoop on famous landmarks and not-famous-but-cool Parisian places, people and things.
  • You’ll even get to help PLAN MY DAY by telling me where YOU want to go in Paris. I’ll take you with me – it’ll be the next best thing to being there!
  • And of course, you’ll also learn how to Achieve The Impossible in your own life through 4 WHOLE WEEKS OF LIFE-SHIFTING LESSONS, learning how to get your “can’t do it, it’s impossible” to “Done = Done”. (come learn the secret of what that means!) The Magic of Done is the Whole Point. ;-)
  • You also really need to be here if you’ve always wanted to have a super jumbo deluxe vacation for yourself and you never got to take one.
  • Oh yes, there will be massage and spa stuff. And coffee. And sidewalk cafe action. And girlfriends. And a live ETHOS Workshop. And lots and LOTS of energy. ;-)

I’ll be getting back to you a little later on the specifics, but if you’re interested in becoming an Early Adopter (we reward Early Adopters very heavily around here) you can join the “Achieve The Impossible” Experience in Paris by filling in this handy form. I’ll be holding some very special calls and giving you previews of what’s going to happen and also what isn’t. Only those on this list will get notification of these juicy free calls, so do sign up now – I’ll even send you a free gift of Parisian lore!

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The Oh-So-Chic Neighborhood Tour

And now, just to wet your whistle, here are some of the sights and interesting places we’ll be surrounded by, courtesy of Google Maps:

Montorgueil is the old open market area of Paris and is close to my apartment. This is my new god, says the hubby “the Great Golden HypnoSnail”. Yes, the French really do eat snails, though my local contacts wonder if it’s become more of a touristy thing. There are seven smaller slimers if you can see ‘em – each about as big as two fists on top of L’Escargot Montorgueil. And of course The Great One. Trying to decide whether to go here for my birthday or not. What do you think? Do I have the guts to eat escargot? I wonder myself…. ;-)

Here’s my front door, sandwiched as most Parisian front doors, between shop fronts. In this case “L’avion Rose” (a gay restaurant and play on the phrase “La vie en Rose” – “The Pink Life” which denotes gay culture) and Hanano sushi restaurant. I won’t lack for entertainment or food. Hope there’s a floor show…

But if I get bored, my neighbors on the right can provide me with Hip Hop & Soul records, a haircut or videos…

And next to the hip-hop shop the Librarie Scaramouche who provide theatre masks, marionettes and Commedia Dell’Arte errata. I am SO going to dive into this shop as well as the Maison de la Poésie (House of Poetry) and Theatre Moliere. Wow…and just next door to the Library Scare-a-mouse (to quote the hubby) is…

Passage Moliere! Theatrical aficionados will rejoice. As will the JBear, for right next door and not ten steps from my apartment is Jean-Bernard’s Wine Cave. Not cellar, *CAVE*. The Bear’s put in an order for a good Beaujolais.

Here’s my interesting across-the-street neighbor, what the web describes as the “Big Butch Lesbian” Unity Bar. Huzzah! Women to have drinks with! With my haircut, I’ll fit right in… ;-)

This is L’Horloge a Automate – a funky concrete plaza that goes through to the next street and contains antique clock displays. And I might get a tattoo….or not…

A store called Nag Champa! It’s GOT to have incense! Looks funky and just up the street. Woo!

And down the other way MASSAGE AND COFFEE? ARE YOU KIDDING? I am SO there! Wish they’d taken the photo when the place was open so we could get a glimpse thru the blinds…

And on the corner, a cute little breakfast-dinner cafe (morning coffee will be here, oh yeah) and wonder of wonders on the street where I live, a Fromager, or cheese shop! Whee!

And on the opposite corner, on busy, vibrant Rue Rambuteau just across from the Centre Georges Pompidou, a pharmacy for those necessary lost-my-toothbrush kind of purchases. I want to experience French toothpaste, deodorant and hair products. Having spiky hair, good product is important.

Marketing choices in flavor and fragrance have always been an interest. When I lived in England in the 1980’s, a popular fragrance for years was something I could only describe as “fuschia-pink gumdrop”. Another was “bamboo”. I’ve never smelt these fragrances in America. I also once had “Irn Bru” (a strong & dark Scottish soda) flavored toothpaste. Pass on that, if you’re ever offered. Trust me.

Finally, just across from Centre Georges Pompidou, is the Flunch cafe hooking up to L’Horloge a Automate and what we’ve christened the Fabulous (if dour) Flying Flunch-Mittie (for its resemblance to our Tosh-cat). I shall make a pilgrimage and leave a handful of catnip in homage. I may even lunch at Flunch. Maybe.

I just learned (all praise to Google) that Flunch is a self-serve cafeteria style chain and “If you need to use the toilet, take your receipt with you: It shows the lavatory entrance code, which you’ll need to unlock the door to the toilettes.” I’ll consider myself forewarned on that count. ;-)

That’s it from the French Front for now. Stay tuned for the next installment on my fantabulous apartment, ETHOS in Paris, and how YOU can join me on my travels, to Achieve The Impossible!

New Year’s Eve on the San Francisco Peninsula

Friday, January 1st, 2010 by Maryam Webster

Be it ever so humble…here’s our New Year’s Eve in Redwood City, CA – complete with interesting neighbors, mariachi (which unfortunately you can’t quite hear thru the Flip’s limited mike), a gen-u-wine Radar Range, gunfire, rockets, Dick Clark, brother Johannes on the FaceBook, @andrealee and other darlings on TweetDeck, shrimp & assorted sauces (only a fraction of the truly decadent parade of food we had during the evening – oh yes), Piper Heidsieck champagne and the much-beloved JBear…

Habari gani? Ujima. Happy Kwanzaa!

Monday, December 28th, 2009 by Maryam Webster

Do you know about Kwanzaa? It is celebrated to honor the first fruits of Harvest and happens this week, December 26th – January 1st as a festival of African-American culture, beauty and unity. I didn’t know about this beautiful festival until just a few years ago, though it was begun in America in 1966 by black studies professor, Maulana Karenga.

Below is a primer from BeliefNet.com to enjoy. There is a space between the early December holy days of Hanukkah and Solstice, this year on the 21st, then between Solstice and Christmas on the 25th and Christmas and New Year’s on January 1st. Kwanzaa wonderfully carries on the holy days festival calendar with its timeless Seven Principles.

This year, I am taking as a personal motto and charge:

Principle of Ujima: Collective Work and Responsibility

You might say 2010 is the Year of Ujima for all conscious people to rise and together, swing this world away from destruction the prophets of doom predict and slew our collective Bliss Compass around so the wind’s at our backs this time  ~ towards a kind land where Presence, equanimity and good faith exist among all.

For a start.

Check out what else Kwanzaa means and follow the links back to BeliefNet for more info:

KWANZAA: The First Fruits of the Harvest
When It Falls Kwanzaa is an annual festival that lasts seven days, from December 26 to January 1.
Meaning The word Kwanzaa comes from the phrase, ‘matunda ya kwanza,’ which means ‘first fruits of the harvest’ in Swahili. Kwanzaa is modeled on the first fruit celebrations of ancient Africa. It is now a celebration of African-American family, community, and self-improvement.
History Kwanzaa was created as a cultural festival in 1966 by Maulana Karenga, now a black studies professor. The festival was created to encourage African-Americans to think about their African roots and develop a higher African-American consciousness.
Seven Principles (Nguzo Saba)
  • Umoja — Unity
  • Kujichagulia — Self-Determination
  • Ujima — Collective Work and Responsibility
  • Ujamaa — Cooperative Economics
  • Nia — Purpose
  • Kuumba — Creativity
  • Imani — Faith
  • Ritual Objects & Symbols
  • Mkeka — straw table mat, on which all other objects are placed
  • Mazao — crops, symbols of the fruits of collective labor
  • Muhindi — one ear of corn for each child, symbolizing fertility
  • Kikombe cha umoja — the unity cup, used to perform the libation ritual
  • Zawadi — gifts, traditional items that encourage success
  • Kinara — candleholder, a symbol of ancestry
  • Mishumaa saba — seven candles, one for each of the seven Kwanzaa principles
  • Customs Each night, the family gathers to light the candles of the kinara, adding one candle for each day of the holiday. A traditional feast is held on the night of December 31.
    Gifts Gifts are usually opened on the last day of Kwanzaa, January 1. Gifts are considered part of the “kuumba,” or creativity, principle and are encouraged. Traditional presents are books and heritage symbols.
    Traditional Greeting “Habari gani?”, to which one replies with the Kwanzaa principle of the day.
    Traditional Meal Most celebrants have a feast, called a karamu, on December 31.
    Suggested Reading Kwanzaa: A Celebration of Family, Community and Culture
    By Maulana Karenga
    Kwanzaa: An African-American Celebration of Culture and Cooking
    By Eric V. Copage

    HOW MUCH DID YOU LEARN? TAKE THE KWANZAA QUIZ TO FIND OUT.

    The Holiday BlissNote 2009

    Thursday, December 24th, 2009 by Maryam Webster

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    Maryam’s Holiday Hooray, Shiny Presents
    Included, Loads ‘o Wisdom Winter News

    CONTENTS
    * Holiday Gratitude & New Direction
    * Solstice (OMG!) Call Replay, Gifts & Rocky Roads
    * French Ingenuity, Transparency Redux & My Motley Past
    * Busy Women: Freebies For The Tired & Time-Starved Family
    * Transformation Tool: EVOLUTIONARY ENVIRONMENTS
    * Availability Pledge, Jaw Surgery & Are We Connected?
    * Old Family Recipes: Organic, Gluten-Free Yuletide Wassail Bowl

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    Welcome To The Party…

    This is my WHACKIN’ HUGE LOAD OF PRIMO CONTENT, tons’a prezzies, and catch-up letter for the year.

    There’s some interesting stuff in here – teeth video, mom’s meal planners, transformers, my motley past, a commentary on gurus and a whole basket of yuletide g’ifts & goodness. Check the index above for juice-factor!

    A very Merry Christmas and Solstice this week to you. I wanted to give you yuletide greetings while also telling you how very much I appreciate you.

    I am deeply grateful for everyone who is tuned into the Now, and interested in raising consciousness on the planet like I know you are. At least, if you’re hip to joining this community, I hope you’re into waking up the planet and spreading a wave of consciousness throughout the world. We’re going to be doing a lot of that in 2010 together, so get ready – fun times ahead!

    Oh by the way, I should mention that in this last year I’ve taken off to rest, reflect, refresh and retool, my business has changed a good deal. I’m not ready to say much more until after New Year’s, but Consciousness-bringing is definitely the direction. More later on that ;-)

    *** FREE Replay of The Solstice World Transformation Ritual & Rocky Roads Ahead ***

    christmas-spiritWe had an amazing time Monday during the exact time of Winter Solstice, doing a ritual of clearing out the old, bringing in the desired and learning how each of our lives is sacred and how we are all priest/esses in our lives. I’m not using that as a religious term, but a spiritual one, for we are all here as teachers and students of each other.

    We had five beautiful Priestesses of Dawn attend us with blessings of sacredness & joy which I can’t begin to put into words. You should hear theirs – I’m offering the replay and the TEN different gifts we put together into a “Make 2010 The Year You REALLY SHINE” package.

    It’s awesome-sauce! And available for replay to soak up those wonderful lessons & techniques, if you let me know your opinion on some really important issues:

    http://bit.ly/SolsticeGiftReplay

    I’m committed to serving you so much better in 2010 than I have in the past. There may be some rocky roads ahead for our planet, and some big changes for us as human beings. I’m stepping up in service of supporting and forearming people like you through those changes, with a magic bag full of easily learnable tools to help you accomplish that Big Mission of yours.

    That’s one of my most cherished 2010 goals.

    But to do that, I need you to tell me what YOU really want and need to have happen in your life this year.

    I know that time is precious and valuable. So I’m willing to make it worth your time – there’s a bunch of goodness waiting for you at the end of this rainbow:

    http://bit.ly/SolsticeGiftReplay

    Thanks – it will help SO much!

    From the Blog: French Ingenuity, Transparency & My Motley Past

    Cezanne_HarlequinAn absolutely amazing video of French students doing stop-motion chair dance shows us a new Bliss Key: Cheerful Cooperation. When you engage this Bliss Key, the Bliss Blocker it unlocks is twofold:

    1) The Need To Be Right – those who need to be right are rarely happy
    2) Self-Isolation, leading to depression

    Great winter blues cure here: http://bit.ly/CheerfulCooperation

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    Transparency, Gurus, Gory Details & Telling Secrets – trending topics over at the blog and ’round about the web since the James Arthur Ray sweatlodge deaths. This is part of that discussion:

    translucencemanTransparency, translucence, living a conscious life – or whatever you call it, is not only the birthright and destiny of every human, but also our responsibility to the future. Our choices are essential, each one important, even east or west, choosing paper, plastic or bring-your-own, choosing to remain conscious in the face of frightening and destructive acts of unspeakable evil, or parking a block away.

    We bear witness.

    We choose with our intention and our energy the best and most evolutionary choices we can possibly make given our individual situation. Only we can make that choice, no one can do it for us. It’s called taking personal responsibility and it’s a Rubicon we all have to cross at some point in adult life to become fully human.

    And we know that while (often intensely) impactful, our situation is not personal. Such a situation or lesson, if we choose to see it this way, is given to billions. Lessons are 100% Universal.

    Thinking further on this brought me to the universals in how humans encode their experience that created The ETHOS Method.

    What else is Universal? Living life asleep. And the ability to wake up, will do for a start. Spread the Wave – Consciousness will set you free. Really.

    More on transparency and my motley past here: http://bit.ly/transparencysecrets

    Here is the original post: http://bit.ly/translucentadvantage

    And how to stay Unlimited: http://bit.ly/keepunlimitedstate

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    The post that’s really got folks buzzing, on spiritual abusers in our midst, offer of abuse-prevention how-to and some details of my er, motley past – comment stream is also worth a read:

    http://bit.ly/resurrectingthepast

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    Head’s Up Moms: FREEBIES For The Tired & Time-Starved Family

    cheerful-duckMoms especially will love this collection of f’ree downloadable organizer pages for your day, week, month and year. Three whole pages, about eighteen different forms in all to print and help organize the chaos of an active family! There’s a fall cleaning checklist, the “Eat Sheet” for a week’s worth of meals, a weekly family calendar, baby’s schedule, infant babysitter checklist and more. You don’t even have to sign up, just download:

    http://www.mommytracked.com/downloads

    There’s more of the same (only different) over at http://www.cozi.com/ too. Check ‘em both out!

    Transformation Tool: EVOLUTIONARY ENVIRONMENTS

    One of the evolutionary environments I indulge in frequently is
    my back garden. From the covered deck, I can observe wildlife and
    rejoice in my fur-daughters’ play. I love it, and it evolves me
    uniquely well.

    http://bit.ly/greengardenafternoon

    This is a Mellowvision vid for you to relax to. I like making panoramas as turning in place is fun. Now you see what I see every afternoon. I’m out there rain or shine, it’s a must for mental health. ;-)

    Enjoy!


    Availability Pledge, Jaw Surgery & Are We Connected?

    best-reindeerI pledge to be more available to you in 2010. For one thing, I’ll be making lots of videos from now on. I’ve gone a bit video nutty really, as I’ve used my Flip Mino to exhaustion and happen to know Santa is dropping off a Kodak zi8.

    (will it be aqua or raspberry? dunno…the Bear wouldn’t tell)

    Of interest is the fact that in the new year I’ll be having jaw surgery. Not cosmetic, apparently I have really strong bones (a good thing since Mom had osteoporosis) and they’re crowding my teeth too much – several teeth need to be reseated in the jaw. Yuck, yuck, yuck. It’ll be gnarly, but I’ll be documenting this and how I’m dealing with discomfort. We’ll be doing a pain management class next year.

    Interested in learning to get rid of pain? Again, let me know here:

    http://bit.ly/SolsticeGiftReplay

    And I’m going to be offering ways in which we can easily talk together about what’s important in 2010. A few are available right now, and the team is hard at work developing more. Are we connected? I’d love it if you’d Friend me on:

    Facebook: http://facebook.com/maryamwebster
    LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/maryamwebster
    Follow on Twitter: http://twitter.com/maryamwebster

    Old Family Recipes for Yule: Wassail Bowl

    “Wassail and wassail all over the town,
    Our Cup it is white and your ale it is brown…”

    – Gloucester Wassail, arr. English Traditional

    The_Squire's_Toast-WassailWassail is a contraction of the old Anglo-Saxon phrase “wes thu hal” meaning “To Your Health”. And of course, the traditional toasting beverage of  this  “best time of the year”  ~ which in this case is a non-alcoholic hot apple cider punch we serve for the winter holidays. It is never served any other time of the year. You can twiddle the ingredients about a bit, Graines of Paradise may be hard to come by but you can substitute pink or green peppercorns or just leave it out.

    Want to up the octane? Add a full bottle of mead (honey wine), barleywine or even a crisp  chardonnay to the mix, or a shot of Applejack to each mug.

    To two gallons apple cider add:

    15 dried dates
    20 dried apple rings
    1 orange cut into thin slices w/peel left on
    1 lemon cut into thin slices w/peel left on
    3 cinnamon sticks, whole
    1tsp. freshly grated nutmeg
    1″ fresh ginger, sliced thin

    Handful each:
    Mixed dried fruit bits
    Dried Cranberries
    Dried Cherries

    Large pinch each:
    Whole coriander seed
    Whole cardmom pod, well crushed
    Whole cloves
    Cinnamon chips or small pieces

    Small pinch each:
    Allspice berries
    Damascena rose petals or 1tbsp rose water
    Dried barberries (can substitute 1tsp lemon juice + tbsp raisins)
    Graines of paradise (or pink or green peppercorns)

    Add:
    1/4 – 1/2 cup brown sugar or blue agave or maple syrup, to taste

    Crush all the spices and add to the cider and fruits in a large stainless steel or enameled pan. Simmer until volume is reduced by a third. When cooked down to your taste, strain through coffee filter or paper towel to remove pulp and spices. Replace a few fresh lemon, orange and apple rings and add 2 new cinnamon sticks to serve. Serve piping hot.

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    How DOES it get any better…?

    champagne04goldpartyhatI’ll be back to you just before New Year’s with some more juice for your joyous life and ways for you to live in ease, grace and joy.

    For now, just keep asking: “How does it get any better than this?” Don’t wait for an answer, just let it be out there, so it can return to you in wondrous ways!

    All my Love & Warmest Holiday Blessings,
    Maryam


    Leadership Lessons From the Birds

    Wednesday, December 24th, 2008 by Maryam Webster

    There are so many lessons in Presence, in Community, Leadership and Cooperation we can learn from animals. Here’s just one more for the holidays. Before you roast that Christmas goose (if that’s your thing) check out what these community-minded fowl can teach us all.

    canadian-geeseLeadership Lessons We can Learn From Geese

    Geese Fact: As each goose flaps its wings, it creates an “uplift” for the other birds to follow. By flying in a “V” formation, the whole flock adds 70% greater flying range than if each bird flew alone.

    Our Lesson: People who share a common direction and a sense of community get where they are going quicker and easier — because they are traveling on the thrust of one another.

    Geese Fact: When a goose falls out of formation, it suddenly feels the drag and resistance of flying alone. It quickly moves back into formation to take advantage of the lifting power of the bird immediately in front of it.

    Our Lesson: If we have as much sense as a goose, we stay in formation with those headed where we want to go. We are willing to accept their help and give our help to others.

    Geese Fact: When a goose tires, it rotates to the back of the formation as another goose flies to the point opposite.

    Our Lesson: It pays to take turns doing the hard tasks and sharing leadership. As with geese, people are interdependent on each other’s skills, capabilities and unique arrangement of gifts, talents or resources.

    Geese Fact: The geese flying in formation honk to encourage those up front to keep up their speed.

    Our Lesson: We need to make sure our honking is encouraging. In groups — where there is encouragement to stand by one’s heart or core values and encourage the same in others — is the sort of honking we seek.

    Geese Fact: When a goose gets sick, wounded or shot down, two geese drop out of formation and follow it down to help and protect it. They stay with it until it dies or is able to fly again. Then they launch out in formation and try to catch the flock.

    Our Lesson: If we had as much sense as geese, we would stand by each other in difficult times as well as when we are strong.


    Note: Though many others have been credited, Dr Robert McNeish of Baltimore, MD is the author of this piece, which was written in 1972 as a lay sermon delivered to Northminster Presbyterian Church in Reisterstown, MD. Dr McNeish was a biology teacher who enjoyed observing the geese on the eastern Atlantic shores of Maryland. Thanks to the exhaustive research of Sue Widemark for the provenance of this article.


    Blessings & Lessons From Smart Animals

    Tuesday, December 23rd, 2008 by Maryam Webster

    bambi-thumperFriendship and love, even across species. This is what it looks like. Check your heart when you look at this picture…that’s what it feels like. (see below for more)

    It always amazes me when I meet people who won’t cosy up to another human being, who won’t accept help, whose stiff-necked pride depends on being “completely, totally independent”.  I used to see that a lot back when I was a social worker. And even today, in some who would consider it beneath them to accept a helping hand, or others who won’t reach out to their networks when they really need to.

    Now I enjoy my financial independence, being an independent thinker and things like that, but will I accept a hug, a friendly nuzzle or a helping hand?  Oh, you betcha! And revel in the close-knit communities I enjoy being part of.

    Come on, folks. It’s the holidays. If you really need to, and even if you don’t – reach out, please. You’ll be doing someone else the immense favor of allowing them the extreme blessing of giving, and yourself the equal blessing of receiving.  No perps, no victims – it’s an equal exchange. Think about it.

    Ask  your mom or maiden aunt for a hug. Get your dad to help you check your tires or change a lightbulb. Sincerely ask a colleague’s opinion on your latest product or business thought. ‘Tis the season of giving, so give that blessing to others.

    In that, we can all stand to learn a thing or two from our animal friends. The first thing we can all do with more of that this pair of buddies has down: friendship and love – even across different species. Thanks to Certified Energy Coach Carol Sanderell for sending this beautiful photo essay and heartwarming story of the fawn Finchen and her wild rabbit companion seen above.

    The full essay (in  both German and English) with loads of pictures can be found here: http://www.tanja-askani.de/ Talk about magic, communication and inspiration! If you’re a big softie like me, you’ll cry tears of joy. Check out her other photos of interspecies communication.  Warm your cockles for darn sure.

    Open House Community Telegathering 12/19/08

    Tuesday, December 16th, 2008 by Maryam Webster

    Join Our Festive and Transformative Holiday Party!

    This call was held: Friday, December 19, 2008 at 2pm Pacific, 5pm Eastern, 10pm UK. Replay is below…

    We learned a technique my husband taught me on our first date…and worked with “chakra lights” in a brand new way…

    This technique is a blend you’ve never experienced before – and it will be yours from now on.

    During this call, we also covered points from the upcoming Magic of Consciousness and 12 Keys to Bliss programs that you can use to make your holidays sane havens of peaceful living including:

    • The Stop Stress Side-Step
    •  Lost Key To Bliss – The Law Of Allowance
    •  Regaining time & Solving Problems through POC/POD Collapse

    But there was also a higher purpose to this telegathering.

    “The opportunity for us to grow exponentially as individuals and community is already present.” Join Us!

    Many people are feeling the pull towards a new dimension of being, thought, and freedom from limitation.

    Consciousness. It’s in the air, it’s being talked about all over.

    There is an unprecedented opportunity at this time of year to use the magic of the season and the increased goodwill to create even more consciousness in yourself and in the world around you.

    How will you leverage this opportunity as an individual? As a member of a community?

    Together, we are much more powerful that we are individually.

    In this call we discovered just how powerful we are together, using what we learned.

    We learned how to remain Present when all around you dissolves in chaos – particularly when family members and stress are present in the same gathering.

    Got Sanity? (particularly at the holidays)

    No? Then listen again below…it’s totally no obligation, and my gift to you.

    Oh and speaking of GIFTS, there was a RAFFLE. The prizes  are:

    1) THREE Amazon gift cards (will you choose books, appliances, gourmet food…or something else?)

    2) TWO of my Everyday Bliss For Busy Women books

    3) ONE personal 30 minute ETHOS Session for a helping professional (with the snag that s/he has to get ETHOS out to their clients)

    We’ll see who won those tomorrow, after we go through all the many entries!

    Entries for the raffle are CLOSED now, but you can click here for the replay AND download of the call through the last day of 2008 ONLY.

    Enjoy and Happy Christmas, Solstice, Kwanzaa, Hannukah, Mother Night  and New Year to you!

    Warm Blessings,
    Maryam


    Happy Hallows & DST Reminder

    Friday, October 31st, 2008 by Maryam Webster
    Happy Halloween!

    Happy Halloween from Maryam and all the staff at The Maryam Webster Group, Energy Coach Institute, ETHOS Method and Everyday Bliss communities.

    We’d like to remind all our clients and friends in the United States to turn your clocks back ONE HOUR on Saturday night, November 1st as the U.S. returns to “standard time” for the winter months.

    Check your timezone here: http://timeanddate.com

    For those receiving this outside the United States, we have a quaint habit here of colluding in a bit of mass self-hypnosis to  constrain time in aid of squeezing more hours out of the workforce. We “fall back” to normal time on the first day of November.

    Happy Fall and Halloween!

    I am free…is *that* true?

    Friday, July 4th, 2008 by Maryam Webster

    freedom....?On this fine day I always think of freedom and what it means to me. This year I asked some neighbors I don’t normally find at home during the day. "Freedom," said my neighbor Leonard, a proud Texan, "is being able to sit in my back yard and eat hotdogs and stay drunk all damned day and no one can say a thing about it." Mrs. Leonard hands him another cold one. His fourth, if we count the crushed empties scattered around him.

    Leonard has a further epiphany: "Naw, seriously, being free is all about  the gub’mint can’t tell you how to worship and the church isn’t supposed to get any gub’mint support….aw hell…I mean dangit! Freedom don’t mean what it did once." 

    Leonard, you said a mouthful. Thanks for sharing your fine hickory smoked brisket, and a Happy 4th to you and the missus.

    "I think independance for people of color should have been left in the constitution." said elderly Annalee through a mouthful of her daughter’s strawberry-rhubard pie. "They took it out you know. Jefferson was for leaving it in but of course now we know he was seeing his maid on the side. Poor Mrs. Jefferson. Bless her heart." Annalee and her daughter Ruth live together in a tiny Craftsman with eight cats. She has me thinking about all those not free today because of the color of their skin.

    God bless, Annalee, enjoy that pie.

    "Freedom is in the mind." said neighbor Akane, a Japanese decorator "it is personally created. Either you have it or you don’t, what the government does or does not do is immaterial."  Well said, Akane. Very Buddhist and very true.

    I was thinking about this question myself. Are people free? And whatever the answer is, is that true?

    Appropos to the last post being partially about Byron Katie, I dialogued with myself: "People are not free, that is why we place so much emphasis on freedom."  and then: "Is that true? How can I know that’s true?"  And turning this around on its ear I thought: "Freedom is an illusion…lack of freedom is an illusion".

    Agree with this? Disagree? Feel free to leave a comment.

    Or simply think within yourself…what is the one thing that I am saying NO to, that I really want to say YES to? And what is the one thing I am embracing that I need to let go of?

    Inspiration, and the gift of an Old Favorite For Winter Solstice

    Friday, December 21st, 2007 by Maryam Webster

    I love the Everything Yoga blog. Diane had a great quotation for the Winter Solstice:

    Take time to do yoga and meditation on the Winter Solstice,

    A moment of time in the midst of your busy holiday schedule,

    To acknowledge healing and the possibility of a miracle in every moment.

    I’ve revamped my Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) Tutorial "EFT In A Nutshell: The Quickstart" to make it even easier to understand. For the "knowledge of healing and possibility of a miracle" using only your hands and mind check it out here:

    http://maryamwebster.com/eftbasics

    Happy Solstice!! 

    Warmest Love & Blessings,
    Maryam