An Open Letter About My Intent | Are You A Scammer? | Introducing New Teachers
If you have opinions on anything I’ve said or want to float a “yee-hah-I-agree”, this is your engraved invitation to click the “comment” link below this post & let ‘er rip. 
How are you doing? The last week has been intense for many of us and I just wanted to check in on you and offer you more support for your transformational journey.
I also want to give you every chance to get the fantastic free trainings I did this week if you haven’t yet, (these WILL be at-cost within the month so get on it!) which are in replay only for a few more hours!
Plus clue you in on a sparkling new opportunity that’s shaping up to be like going to a Greens Festival crossed with a Ren Faire and Mind, Body & Spirit convention all rolled into one. Lots of spiritual and self-help, consciousness raising type teachers are gathering to give you free samples of their best work so you can see if perhaps they have a piece of your puzzle.
Lots of opportunity, open for just a month and keep reading for how I’m participating. (Hint: my Giveaway is foundational magical training you *need* to make anything you do a success)
But FIRST…. a bit of background on why I’m doing all that I’ve been doing lately as some people….
have been interested…
(and occasionally quite vocal)
about the need for an explanation.
A Coaching Tip: Could your need to know something about someone else be just an interesting point of view? That you hold no attachment to with neither reason or justification?
(think about it)
I’ll also share some more depth training on how to move, shape and flow energy before I share the time-limited replays to the two trainings this week…
If you’ve been connecting to my free “Energetic Economic Stimulus” Trainings on how to shape your energy for success in life and business, you’ll know that Wednesday and Thursday we had two amazing, uplifting humdingers of training calls.
I’m providing these free training calls so you can put a rocket booster on your personal and business issues, get them out of the way and get INTO that life you really desire.
Just think of me as your Transformational Google, providing you with the highest quality solutions leading to a Life of Ease, Grace and Joy. ;-)
To that end, the two calls I did this week as guest expert for Tom Buford and Adela Rubio were some of the best work I’ve ever offered in public…
Ordinarily, you would have to be a private client to learn this material, though I’m not taking private clients that often anymore…
But these tools were too good to keep and you needed to have them. But if you weren’t there, or need to hear this priceless instruction and get the tool worth $2.5k again…
JUMP ON THIS FAST, for the next 24 hours you can STILL GET THE REPLAYS of these calls:
Learnings with Tom Buford on how to Give Yourself That Raise You Deserve, plus the ENERGY TOOL my private clients pay over $2,500 to learn – just this one tool will save you time and net you thousands if you use it every day:
Learnings with Adela Rubio on creating a Conscious Business, and the FUNDAMENTAL ENERGY SHAPING facts you NEED TO KNOW. Fail to put these in place and NONE of the classes you take or techniques you know will ever work. You need to first know how to create at the most foundational Quantum level:
http://bit.ly/yourconsciousbiz
ANOTHER RESOURCE & MANY F REEBIES
If you’ve been with me any time at all you’ll know that while I only work privately with high level community leaders, I provide a lot of no-cost training for everyone who wants to come to full conscious creatorship of their lives to step up, and lead the tribes they live, play & work with.
One of the ways I’ve done this for you, is to search out the best teleseminar series I can & bring those trainings to you – often where I’m asked to be a guest expert.
And not just to hear me, but also to introduce you to high caliber teachers you may never have gotten to meet any other way…
Another way is through conscious business giveaways where many teachers gather to give you a sample of who they are and what you can learn from them in terms of free classes, ebooks, audios, videos and other products.
Tomorrow, another one of these goes live and I want you to be able to be the first in the door for the hundreds of free self-help and consciousness raising gifts that will be available here:
And just so you know, I do get a percentage of any sales they make from the event, as does everyone involved. This is one of the ways teachers like myself, whose product is information, make their living. But I wouldn’t recommend this unless I thought you would deeply benefit and find teachers and information that could propel you to the next level of YOUR evolution.
If this bothers you – don’t click. I won’t take any offense at all. 
A Coaching Tip: If this or anything at all, any time, anywhere offends you….can that just be an interesting point of view that you can choose to release now? And hold no significance about with either reason or justification?
(pulse your ETHOS Triple Cue and breathe…)
Debunking a MYTH and… IT’S ALL A SCAM ANYWAY…RIGHT?
Not often but occasionally I’ll get someone freaking out and saying “OMG, that person whose free product I signed up for spammed me! They sent me an email! How uncool!”
No, they didn’t, and no it isn’t.
Spam is email that you never signed up for, for something you have no interest in. If you signed up for a no-cost product, that’s a little bit of a taste of what that person has to teach you, you’ve indicated your interest legally and morally speaking, and they have the right to email you after you opt-in by clicking their link.
You can always unsub if it’s such an all-fired hassle, but you might want to ask yourself why you signed up for that free product in the first place…and read my special words to you in the section below.
Give a little back in terms of your openness to learn, and the free product will exponentially expand its power to help you.
Lots of ‘em, and lots of teachers, healers and friends you just haven’t met yet are waiting to meet you, share their wisdom with you and help you excel. From June 12th – July 3rd you’ll have all kinds of opportunities to learn:
http://bit.ly/SelfHelpGivers
HOW TO GET THE MOST OUT OF A GIVEAWAY – or – ARE YOU A SCAM ARTIST?
This is just for the folks who cry “spam & scams”, or just came to get a freebie, unsubscribe and run. Are you a scammer yourself? If you are doing to these teachers what you accuse them of trying to do to you – then yes.
Pot, Kettle, Black, my friend.
If you’re there to learn something and consider whether you want to continue learning from the other person, then you’ve got the idea and are doing it right.
By cracking open that PDF or listening to the free class, you’re giving respect to the person who worked so hard to prepare it for you and respecting yourself by being open enough to learn something new.
We called that “giving it the good ol’ college try” when I was a kid. It’s giving something a fair shot. And if it’s a match, great. If not, move on, fair enough.
Remember, we all have a unique lesson to teach and people WE are meant to learn from.
Because you’re reading this, you may be meant to learn from me, and me from you.
(goes both ways, you see)
I’m not meant to be *everyone’s* teacher – so I’m providing these giveaway opportunities so that you can get exposure to a WIDE VARIETY OF TEACHERS. I figure if you’re really are meant to be learning from someone else, this is one of the best ways I can help you and me and another teacher you haven’t met yet. It’s a win-win-win all around.
HOW TO MAKE THESE OPPORTUNITIES REALLY SING FOR YOU
If you’ve been paying attention, following along and doing the exercises and using the tools I’ve been teaching, you can pretty well put together a whopper of a get-my-life-in-order or whip-my-biz-into-shape energy ball (we go into that in Adela’s call) and reel in ONLY the right people to work with hence making more money and having much, MUCH more fun (as we did on Tom’s call).
How? Re-listen to these two calls QUICK:
http://bit.ly/yourconsciousbiz
Then, saunter on over and pick up whatever gifts you like and find your new teacher/s from June 12th – July 3rd, 2010:
So if you opt in to a free gift, stay awhile, read the emails the person sends you. If they sound like they’re in integrity, hang out and see what you learn.
Chances are, you COULD learn something wonderful.
Or maybe it’s not a fit and you choose to move on by hitting the unsubscribe button. Either way, you will have been exposed to something new and fresh and with a lineup like this you can pick and choose which offers are attractive and supportive to you.
BTW – you can pick up MY Gift – an even-deeper Energy Magic training on Summer Solstice, June 21st here:
http://www.maryamwebster.com/solstice-training
And whatever you do, remember that what you give A.I.R. – lives. That is, what you give your Attention, shaped by Intention & powered by Repetition.
Choose your focus, your teachers and your next move, carefully.
If you have opinions on anything I’ve said or want to float a “yee-hah-I-agree”, this is your engraved invitation to click the “comment” link below and let ‘er rip.
Until next time, warm blessings…
Maryam
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June 12th, 2010 17:14
Yeah!! You nailed this one. I totally agree although I never thought about it that way. I understand the logic behind the freebies and enjoy giving away freebies myself, but sometimes it feels like people expect it. II think we all give so much it becomes like an entitlement package. Most who sign up for my free membership area never open an ezine – which I find frustrating (okay, pulse those cues).
I read what people send me, especially at first. If they send me several emails a day or week I eventually hit delete or ‘unsubscribe’, unless I’m really interested in what they’re sending.
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June 12th, 2010 17:29
Hey Val,
Glad it hit a homer! I got to thinking about why I downloaded freebies and unsubscribed and why people did that with my freebies. I realized what I was seeing on my list after a promo was a pattern of download freebie, then about a 10 second wait, then they’d unsubscribe.
People like this will unfortunately never get the true value we offer because they only have a tiny, tiny fraction of what we teach or coach around. It’s poverty thinking that makes people lunge for the freebies and run. But, bless ‘em & release ‘em, I say, bless and release. As I said the other day on Adela’s Conscious Business teleseminar, when you do that, you make a space for a lovely new person who really CAN hear what you have to say, who WILL read your emails and potentially, engage personally with you in the future through the services you offer.
Fine tuning a list with how much to send and when is an ongoing trial and error process in the beginning. Also when you’re changing your business model as I’m doing this year. So I hear you, sister – thanks for weighing in!
June 12th, 2010 18:27
I have heard several free teleseminars, and signed up for the $97 package when I found one that resonated with me. When the online training began, we learned that her offering was misrepresented (she apologized for that, but claimed no responsibility). Also, she has been late in starting the calls, and essentially tells those of us who signed up that because we received such a large discount, we’re not getting the same benefits that her private clients get, AND if you really want the results that she promises, you need to sign up for the next level, at considerably higher cost.
I have learned many valuable tools on these calls, but often just purchasing the speaker’s book is enough. At this juncture, I guess I’m feeling the “once bitten, twice shy” thing. Don’t get me wrong, I think the work is very valuable, and the different approaches to EFT have proven very helpful. It just seems that some folks are working out of integrity, and then I’m left with the self-judgment of having made yet another “interesting” choice…………
June 12th, 2010 22:10
Hi, Maryam,
You are so right with this. What really gets me in a tizzy is when someone grabs my freebie by opting in to my list and then clicks that I am spamming them when I send out an email to them.
A friend of mine had built up a small sub list and was afraid to send out emails to them because they might unsubscribe. I told him that he needed to let those folks go anyway and have space for the ones who would really appreciate his message and with whom he could build a solid relationship.
It is such a pity that the folks who grab and then unsubscribe never get the chance to enrich their lives through a relationship with the person who created the product.
Glad to see you got in on the Self Help Gifts Giveaway. I contributed too.
June 13th, 2010 02:02
No, they didn’t, and no it isn’t.
Spam is email that you never signed up for, for something you have no interest in. If you signed up for a no-cost product, that’s a little bit of a taste of what that person has to teach you, you’ve indicated your interest legally and morally speaking, and they have the right to email you after you opt-in by clicking their link.
You can always unsub if it’s such an all-fired hassle, but you might want to ask yourself why you signed up for that free product in the first place…and read my special words to you in the section below.
Give a little back in terms of your openness to learn, and the free product will exponentially expand its power to help you.
Yee hah! I agree!!
Do you have a coaching tip for a nice open, enquiring sort of way to think about people who sign up for free membership and newsletter and then click the ‘this is spam’ button when they receive it? Yes, I do know they don’t hate me personally and want to put me out of business…
June 13th, 2010 12:01
Hi Amanda,
I really want to give you a reply worth reading, so am going to do that in a post. Check it out momentarily…
And thank you Amanda, for your openness and honesty about your experience. Bright Blessings!!
June 13th, 2010 12:37
Hey Gwen,
Afraid to send out emails because they might unsubscribe? Well if that doesn’t beat all. Bless & Release! Spend time on the folks that really resonate with what you have to say. You’re right Gwen!
June 13th, 2010 15:20
Hi Hilary,
Yes. Education. First of all I just changed my “click through to opt-in” email to reflect that not only would they receive what they asked for, but also news, class announcements, articles and items that might be of interest to them. Then I followed it with “so your email box knows that mail from me ISN’T spam, please add this email address to your “allowed”, “friends” or “white list” which lets them know they will be a ninny to click the spam button. That’s just good pre-framing, which eliminates a ton of unwanted behaviors. Try this with coaching clients, friends, family too. Pre-framing is an ace coaching tool!
And, bless & release ‘em. And know that a percentage of your good work is going out into the world. Even if people don’t stay subscribed, your influence will still be felt. Ask yourself – why are you really in the business you’re in? “Making money” is not an option on this question, that’s a given. Now why are you REALLY in business?