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BlogHer Conference – Right Here In San Jose!

Tuesday, July 18th, 2006 by Maryam Webster

This just in from the Boston Globe:

The second annual BlogHer conference, with corporate sponsors like General Motors
and Johnson & Johnson, will be held July 28-29 in San Jose, Calif.
Attendance is expected to double from last year’s session, which was
supported by Yahoo
and Google and attracted more than 300 women from around the country.
Last year’s theme was “Where are the women bloggers?" The theme for
BlogHer ‘06 is “How is your blog changing your world?"

Indications
are that it’s changing it plenty for some women. Boston-based BlogHer
member Lisa Williams, who attended BlogHer ‘05, is the founder of
H2OTown.info, a community news blog for Watertown.

“What struck
me was how different the hallway noise was compared to other
professional conferences I’ve attended," she said. “The hallways
echoed with warm and excited `Ooohs’ as women met the women whose blogs
they had been reading."

Said Grier: “Face-to-face is very
important. Meeting another person makes what’s on the blog real. At
BlogHer I met people I’ve never known, but who really knew me because
they had been reading my blog."

In May, BlogHer launched an ad
network for its membership to channel economic benefits back to the
women who blog. The trick, BlogHer founder Des Jardins said, is to
“help bridge the gap and yet still maintain the sanctity of their
blogs." As a result, the ad network is totally voluntary. But the
economic benefit to women bloggers is not just in the few dollars they
may earn in ad revenue; it’s in the human connections they make through
their blogs. Increasingly, the conversations begun on blogs are
spawning opportunities…

Read the lot  and come participate if you can. Alas, I shall be at an NLP World Health graduate training during this time, but my thoughts are with you HerBloggers!

The SUMMER FESTIVAL OF FREEDOM!

Tuesday, July 18th, 2006 by Maryam Webster

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It’s Here! It’s Here! This is your PERSONAL INVITATION to the Certified Energy Coach Program’s ABSOLUTELY FREE Summer Festival Of Freedom!

There are about a thousand of you out there who regularly read this blog. I don’t know if you’re all energy coaches or therapists or just interested in fun ways to transform yourself on the cutting edge, but you read me regularly – you must be into what I talk about here. So here’s your big chance:

Come out of the shadows and SAY HI! Or feel free to just lurk, but do sign up to the festival (click the banner above or link below to do that) and get a whole lot of cool stuff for FREE. Here’s a very short list (more info than you’ll ever want when you click that banner or this link) of Festival happenings, which really, is like getting a Very Condensed Version of The CEC Program in just a month’s time. Did I mention it’s all FREE?

  • You’re going to learn some of The Certified Energy Coach’s TRADE SECRETS of rapid change…at our first day’s community "breakfast" on the village green (BYO OJ)
  • Plus, how we almost never get ill….and how you can do the same
  • Those who Sign Up for Free are eligible to WIN free books and other goodies, there’s a drawing each of the four Festival Weeks
  • If you’re a Coach or Therapist, you’ll learn a couple of neat tricks to quantum leap your clients…while we sip delicious iced tea in the Festival gazebo
  • You’ll get to question Certified Energy Coaches on how they use the tools we teach to boost their businesses while you are learning those tools to use yourself
  • You’ll learn how to keep yourself from being befuddled, mixed-up or confused ever again, and install an internal resource so juicy, most energy therapists would charge you several hundred dollars for this one process alone.
  • At the close of our Festival "day", we’ll round out our experience on the grassy commons, trading our best business hints, tips, and FREE Resources. You’ll have a chance to advertise your business here through what you choose to offer the rest of the community….all while lying back comfy, looking up at the stars together.

And oh my, this is a REAL short, short list!

Consider this my personal invitation to you to come to the Festival and talk with myself and the CEC’s graduate Coaches personally and experience IN PERSON what Energy Coaching is really like.

Way, way too many good things to list here, click the banner above or get yourself on over to the Festival site. SEE YOU AT THE FREEDOM FEST!!!

http://certifiedenergycoach.org/summerfestival2006.html

Is Your Chosen Energy Coach Really Helping You?

Sunday, July 16th, 2006 by Maryam Webster

The below list is from a recent article by Dr. Patricia Carrington on the subject of attributes you should look for in a competent EFT practitioner. The same could be said of any Certified Energy Coach, who is multiply versed in energy methods including EFT and at least five others, to help you transform what you need to. Check out this excellent list. In addition to EFT, you can insert any Energy change method of your choice. Your practitioner should be competent in all these areas. If they are not, vote with your feet!

Here are some of the attributes you should look for to ensure practitioner competence:

The practitioner listens carefully

The practitioner sheds new light on how to approach your problem with EFT

The practitioner helps you formulate powerful targeted EFT statements

The practitioner helps you test  to see whether you have fully cleared your issue

The practitioner is skillful in helping you get “unstuck? when you are “stuck? during EFT

The practitioner assigns homework to do between sessions

The practitioner protects you from experiencing unnecessary emotional pain during EFT 

You somehow know that the practitioner cares about you

Read the whole article here: http://www.emofree.com/Articles2/practitioner-helping-you.htm

Gentle Evangelism, ex-Addicts and True Believers

Wednesday, July 5th, 2006 by Maryam Webster

Calling All Energy Coaches and Therapists! This is how to really get the clients you need in the door or sell the CD, book or other product you really need to get out into the world. After being relentlessly "hard marketed" to over the last few weeks by a colleague who is becoming increasingly desperate in his attempts to sell, the professional practice marketer in me just has to speak up. This isn’t the way to do it people! Here’s a take on what is:

Ever heard of "product evangelism"? That’s where a person  sells the merits of his or her company’s product at trade shows and conferences, extolling its benefits in a booth, on a stage and one-on-one. A Product Evangelist must have two things in place to do a good job so the company makes a great deal of sales at the event:

1) They must totally and utterly believe that the product they are advertising will work for the population they are marketing to.

2) They must be willing to be flexible enough to demonstrate how the product can benefit a wide variety of different people and situations to "grab" their listeners and prompt a buy in the moment.

For Energy Coaches and Therapists, there are great lessons in marketing to be learned from those prototypical Product Evangelists: Ex-Addicts and True Believers.  Both have a lot in common, and traits both good and bad when it comes to how their message is received by the public.

A person who smokes know there’s nothing quite so smug or desirous
of being helpful, as an ex-smoker who badgers and self-righteously points to the gains they’ve made since quitting. And  spiritual seekers often begin looking for places to hide when a True
Believer neighbor begins pontificating  (again and again) on the Top Ten Reasons s/he
should join their particular religion. 

The fanatic evangelism of these ex-addicts and True Believers brings a message in a way destined to have the least
possible effect – a way that repulses, rather than attracts their subject. So
too do some that are trying to market a thing they know will be of
great use to others. If you own a human service oriented business and
haven’t heard yet, the days of the pushy salseperson are over!

To have the maximum impact and effect on your business prospects, emulate the Fanatic’s kinder, more effective cousin in: Eight Key Standards Of The Gently Effective Evangelist

1) Know WHAT you have that can be of benefit to others, HOW it can be of benefit, and have an absolute, unshakable faith in it. This is an essential component. (Without it, don’t even bother)

2) Truly love your potential customer/client enough to give them your full attention and benefits. Know exactly WHO desperately needs what you have, and focus your message only on them. (The ex-smoker after all, doesn’t bother pontificating to non-smokers)

3) Deliver your message in a gentle and helpful way by doing so only at the right time. Keep adding value and being of help to those who need to hear what you have to say. When by their words and actions you determine your target audience have been properly prepared and are open to hearing your core message, deliver it then. Not before.

4) Deliver once with enthusiasm, twice with determination…and if at first and second time you don’t succeed, allow the recipient to back out of a subsequent evangelizing with honor. Always give them an escape clause and don’t pester. (escape clause = an "opt out" link in your emails to them, or querying whether they are still interested, if in person)

5) Keep lukewarm prospects on your three and six month re-contact lists, but re-contact with enough distance so they feel comfortable with your doing so – through email rather than in person, for instance.

6) Respect all requests to be "unsubscribed" to your particular form of evangelism, whether through mail or in-person contact. Yes! Unsub them! (quite apart from being the law, it’s the considerate and  professional thing to do) Even if you know your product, service or widget-organizer is SO RIGHT for them and they will be a miserable failure without it. EVEN IF it is your annointed-from-on-High J-O-B to make sure everyone in the known universe has one of your products. Especially then. (Learn to let go for the good of all…)

7) Go for the Easy Connect. Remember, you only want to deliver your message to those who are eager to hear and apply the benefits you extoll, so narrow-focus your evangelism only on those who have previously shown interest, seem to be hanging around you or around your "area" of expertise. Why waste energy climbing the tree when luscious, low-hanging fruits are right before your eyes?

8) When you do make that Connection and sell the service or product, don’t just disappear, CONTINUE being helpful. Help them to digest your product or service by providing helpful hints about how to use it, what to do next and connect them with others. Being a Connector will greatly benefit your bottom line as will the preceding seven Key Standards of the Gently Effective Evangelist.

Keep Love, Respect and a True Desire to Help Others in the equation and you’ll never fail. These eight simple Keys are the way to truly market in a Gently Effective way in the modern world. Enjoy!

We Hold These Truths To Be Self Evident…

Tuesday, July 4th, 2006 by Maryam Webster

A Happy 4th of July to America. I am not normally given to political sentiment, but today is a time more than usual in which I’d feel like an absolute SWINE if I didn’t stand up and observe: There is Something Greatly Amiss In This Country.

I do not enjoy politics and generally don’t speak of political issues. This is my one annual moral observation of the governmental scene. If you usually love what I write, are rightward-leaning and prefer not to delve further than those topics, then please, I urge you to click through to your next destination as YOU MAY BE OFFENDED at what I write below. If you’d like a piece of my mind that I don’t often share, then by all means, pray do keep reading.

When I read through the Declaration of Independance as I do every year on this day (don’t know it? stay tuned), come to the list of crimes of British King George against the people, contrast the current President George II’s behavior with that of the King George III…and can see precious little contrast, I have to speak up and say:

"AMERICA IS A GREAT COUNTRY. BUT WE ARE BEING SOLD OUT, SCREWED AND LIED TO. AND NOT BY ANY FOREIGN POWER, BUT FROM WITHIN."

A cursory comparison of George III’s list of crimes with the track record of the current administration will provide entertaining reading.

Example: Many people feel George II stole the election. "Spoiled" ballots and hanging chads, my Aunt Fanny. Those voters lost their legal right to fair representation. And they were almost uniformly people of color. Similar to George III in his injustice as listed in the original Declaration of Independance:

"He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large
districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of
Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and
formidable to tyrants only."

And topically, in a week that has seen friends die in arms overseas: "He has affected to render the Military
independent of and superior to the Civil Power." If this isn’t the case
in your sector of the States, fear not, we’re getting there fast. Ditto:
"He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies…"  Nevermind sending them out into the world to wreak havoc in other countries who did not ask for our help (for which read, interference).

We are still in the Middle East with no plan for withdrawal. This situation is wasteful, regrettable and not constructive to the Greater Good of anyone, Iraqi, Afghani or American. (yes, Afghani – remember them? The other country we recently went in and ‘helped’?)

In my mind I wonder what if any good can come out of the Middle Eastern wars the American government has begun. In a spiritual sense, I can see that this
situation is catalyzing great change in many who are awakening, but the
great toll in terms of loss of life and suffering saddens me. (I wonder
if humans will ever truly be able to transcend our brutish natures…)
 

These decisions do not represent me, my vote nor my preferences. I disagree with what my government is doing and register complaint at every possible opportunity. I write my congresspeople and senators regularly. I call their offices. I call the White House on particularly irksome matters, and log-in with my preferences. I receive polite, mass-marketed thank-you emails and know my voice has not been truly heard. And so far, in forty odd years of pacifist activism by hundreds of thousands if not millions of people of good conscience, I don’t see that it’s actually doing much good….at least not with those in office.

Activism ignites those whose hearts are ready for a change. It is not my observation that people in public office are of that persuasion or if so, only rarely. And those who do make positive changes tend to get assassinated fairly often – it’s a high risk job, being a public official with a heart and guiding conscience that acts for the absolute best for all concerned.

For me on this day of Independance, it is an act of great political activism to be in the world with an open heart, with love for all and extra love towards even the tyrants that rule our lands. Because in the words of my mother, my spiritual mentor, d, the Dalai Lama, Wayne Dyer and most recently, Dan Millman in his Peaceful Warrior book and movie, "those that are the hardest to love are the ones who need love the most"

Now a moment of silence please, and then read aloud, what so many have come to take for granted, on this day of celebration of Freedom. And reflect what Freedom truly means, REALLY truly means, and the fact we do not have complete Freedom anymore, in the United States of America. And if you’re really, really, really into making This Day count (and not repeating history), think hard about what you’re going to do about it. Then, with profound love in your heart, do it. 

A Happy, Healthy and FREE 4th of July to you

Blessings of Awareness, and of That Which Is Aware… Maryam


IN CONGRESS, JULY 4, 1776 The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen United States of America

When in the Course of human events it becomes necessary for one
people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with
another and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and
equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature’s God entitle
them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they
should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men
are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain
unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit
of Happiness.

- That to secure these rights, Governments are
instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of
the governed,

- That whenever any Form of Government becomes
destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to
abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on
such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them
shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness.

Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long
established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and
accordingly all experience hath shewn that mankind are more disposed to
suffer, while evils are sufferable than to right themselves by
abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long
train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object
evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their
right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide
new Guards for their future security.

- Such has been the patient sufferance of these
Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter
their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of
Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all
having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over
these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world…


Click continue to read the long list of terrible crimes of the British King George. And when you read them, reflect that these crimes are still being perpetrated today ON American soil, BY those in charge of our political freedoms…

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