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EFT For Peak Performance + Great Newsletter!

Thursday, October 27th, 2005 by Maryam Webster

I have some wonderful friends and fellow Emotional Freedom Technique practitioners – masters of the art, from Australia, Peak Performance Psychologist Steve Wells and medical doctor David Lake, M.D. They have a wonderful newsletter I think you should be aware of (subscribe here: http://eftdownunder.com) from which I’m excerpting Steve’s great article on using EFT to ensure Peak Performance. A classic!  Enjoy…

I am going to outline how EFT can be used to assist you to achieve peak performance in any area. This article provides an overview of the 7 steps to peak performance.

Step Number 1 to peak performance is to decide to be a peak performer. I don’t know anyone who ended up becoming a true peak performer without deciding to do so. Decide what success is to you and decide to do what it takes to be successful. If deciding is difficult or intimidating, use EFT on your fears and indecision.

Step Number 2 to peak performance is to break through the barriers. Mostly, these barriers are internal and consist of your beliefs and negative programming. The minute you decide to go for your goals you’ll find all sorts of mental and emotional barriers will rise up. You must overcome these barriers in order to succeed. This is where EFT comes to the fore. The biggest barriers holding you back are your identity beliefs – your beliefs about the sort of person you are and what is possible for you. There are many ways to treat beliefs using EFT but the best starting point is to simply insert the belief statement into the set-up and conduct a few rounds of tapping whilst repeating the belief statement at every tapping point.

Step Number 3 to peak performance is to clarify your values. If you don’t know what’s important you will be constantly grinding your gears. To achieve true success, you must determine what is most important to you and in what order your priorities lie. Conflicts in values are some of the greatest underlying causes of procrastination and self-sabotage. When you know what you really want and have cleared out the internal push-pull you are able to go for it 100%. In my workshops and in my upcoming book I teach you how to use EFT to help you iron out conflicts in your values and free up massive amounts of energy for success.

Step Number 4 to peak performance is to set goals based on your most important values. Many people have a lot of good ideas and dreams but they don’t always realize them, mainly because they never take these ideas and make them into goals. Goal setting is a hallmark of high achievers.

Maryam’s Note: When you set a goal, WRITE IT DOWN! The power of the written word is tremendous on the human psyche. Even better, give your goal a date of completion and share that with a goal-partner (your personal coach, significatn other or supportive friend) who will help hold you accountable. Commitment is a very important part of the process as Steve goes on to say:

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NJ Catholic Students Forced to Delete Blog Posting

Thursday, October 27th, 2005 by Maryam Webster

This just in from WAYNE PARRY, Associated Press Writer, Thu Oct 27, 9:18 AM ET:  NEWARK, N.J. – Students at Pope John XXIII Regional High School in Sparta appear to be heeding a directive from the principal, the Rev. Kieran McHugh, to remove personal postings about the school or themselves from Web sites like myspace.com or xanga.com, even if they were posted from the students’ home computers.

Officials with the Diocese of Paterson say the directive is a matter of safety, not censorship. But constitutional experts say the case raises interesting questions about the intersection of free speech and voluntary agreements with private institutions.

My Two Cents: This is where we are going wrong with our kids and have for centuries. "Ban them from action, straightaway!", rather than teach with love and high amount of family involvement in the child’s life. Which do you think kids would react to better? The ACLU has an opinion:

Kurt Opsahl, a staff attorney at the San Francisco-based Electronic Frontier Foundation, which champions the rights of bloggers, said there have been several attempts nationwide by private institutions to restrict or censor students’ Internet postings.

"But this is the first time we’ve heard of such an overreaction," he said. "It would be better if they taught students what they should and shouldn’t do online rather than take away the primary communication tool of their generation."

More spare change: I’ll extend that and say "teach them what to do and WHY" – the Why is so often left out and children are told "mind me!" without the reason they should mind. Such exercise of authority is destined to spark rebelliousness, even in the most placid teen. Trips to the morgue are being resorted to now with regard to teenage drunk driving – and with reason. After one of these court-ordered trips, kids rarely drink and drive again.

I wonder what generous amounts of communication, love and trust would get the diocese? Isn’t that what Jesus was all about? Love and trust – what a concept…

More: http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20051027/ap_on_hi_te/catholic_school_internet

Energy of Transformaton – Free Monthly Audio!

Tuesday, October 18th, 2005 by Maryam Webster

Bang-up "Energy of Transformation" Monthly Free Telegathering! We borrowed benefits in fine style and got a lot of things dealt with here. More great stuff for trauma survivors and dealing with overwhelm. Included in this audio: Thymus talk and getting the immune system going, Sedating the Triple Warmer Acupuncture Meridian (chills out that "fight or flight" mechanism that keeps us stressed-out all the time) Saying "No" and Getting paid for your work (in a whole lot of different ways), creating a "safe space", agoraphobia. Certified Energy Coach Program student Coach (and ace psychotherapist) Jane, does an excellent ZPoint session and we finish with my classic "Eye Asterisk". Enjoy!

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Promote And Fill Your Energy Therapy or Coaching Business

Saturday, October 15th, 2005 by Maryam Webster

Maybe I don’t know you but I know the place you’re in with your business. You’re a therapist, a personal coach or a holistic human services provider. Maybe your business isn’t as busy as you really want it to be. Perhaps you don’t have enough clients or you just don’t know what the next step is. You might be on the edge, and really wondering if you should be in this business anymore. Perhaps the joy has gone out of it for you – you might even be a little scared about the future… Maybe you have emotions or past events that block you from really achieving success. And you’re Stuck.

I was there once. I know how it is. And I know there is a fun, easy and extremely blissful way out of it…

How Would You Like To:

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ave MORE CLIENTS DO LESS WORK and make MORE MONEY?

Sound impossible? Surprise! It isn’t!

Come to YOUR Marketing Teleclass Anywhere You Are, Worldwide –

Promote and Fill Your Private Practice: Turn What You Love Into A Thriving Business!

Join Expert Energy Therapy Marketers: Angela Treat Lyon, Lindsay Kenny and myself, Maryam Webster With Special Guest Teachers: EFT Creator Gary Craig & Abundance Expert, Dr. Carol Look!

in this fast paced program featuring the very best, time-tested ways to get clients and KEEP YOUR THERAPY, COACHING OR OTHER HELPING BUSINESS FULL and THRIVING

Dates: 1st, 8th, 15th and 22nd of November for one hour           plus "Q/A Session" at the end of calls Time: 12pm Pacific / 3pm Eastern / 8pm UK / 9pm EU

Here’s What You’ll Learn:

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October Is Breast Cancer Awareness Month!

Tuesday, October 4th, 2005 by Maryam Webster

Early October and already the trees are turning in Silicon Valley. In Los Altos, the oaks, madrones and Asian fruit trees are springing in colors of crimson and gold and the farmer’s market apples are the sweetest, fattest and most juicy. I’ve been thinking about what I have done in the summer and where I am taking stock of what still needs be planned for the winter. October is a precious place of both bustle and quiet and getting in the last light-filled nutrients of the summer. While you’re doing that, don’t forget the health of other places in your body and your life…first, the source of all nutrition from the moment we are born: the breasts.

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. As with my newsletter, The Catalyst, we are focusing this month in this blog on natural health strategies to prevent Breast Cancer. First, I’m going to point you towards a wonderful Breast Cancer blog, by an R.N. and Breast Cancer survivor, Lillie Shockney, of Johns Hopkins University. In her October 2 post, Lillie writes:

Now that it’s October, you won’t be able to turn on the television, open a woman’s magazine, or listen to the radio without hearing public service announcements related to breast cancer awareness. Forty years ago this was a hushed disease that was barely discussed in the privacy of one’s home, much less in public.

Today, breast cancer is front and center in the public eye. That’s good news. The more we educate women about this disease, the more women will be diagnosed early and become long-term survivors like myself.

I hope that during this month you will consider doing several things:

  • Encourage someone you love to get her annual mammogram. (Include yourself!) Screening mammography facilities book fast, so call now and schedule yours. Take your sister or mom with you. Go to lunch afterwards knowing that you’ve done the right thing for your families by maintaining your breast health.
  • Participate in a breast cancer awareness event. There are many to choose from: Race for the Cure, Avon’s 2 Day Walk, Making Strides Against Breast Cancer. Your local breast center may be planning some events that you could join. These events raise local awareness and funds for education and research.
  • Donate to a breast cancer organization. The funds raised today will help us find the cure so our daughters won’t have to worry about this disease in the future.
  • Wear a pink ribbon to promote awareness.
  • Write to a friend or relative who is a breast cancer survivor and tell her how proud you are of her for having taken on this disease and overcome it.
  • Write to a friend or relative who has lost a loved one to this disease to say that you are making a donation in her memory.
  • Attend women’s health seminars that discuss breast cancer to empower yourself with information about this disease: early detection, prevention, and treatment.

The day will come when breast cancer appears in the textbooks in the chapter "Cured Diseases." Until then, we need to do the right thing for ourselves and those we love.

- From: http://blogs.health.yahoo.com/experts/breastcancer/109/october-is-breast-cancer-awareness-month

This is an excerpt. You can read more of this post by clicking the link above, or go to the homepage of Lillie’s blog here: http://blogs.health.yahoo.com/experts/breastcancer

As much as you enjoy, and have had your children and lovers enjoy the beauty and nurture of your breasts, remember to enjoy and appreciate "your girls" and do that self-check like clockwork.

And, I may be branded a heretic for saying this, but ONCE A MONTH IS NOT ENOUGH!

My mother, grandmother and auntie died of breast cancer….I do not intend to. If you don’t either, there are some simple things you can do to prevent it. Go along to Lillie’s blog and read her tips there and keep this one in mind as well: the more you handle your breasts, the better you will know them and be sensitised to even minute changes in them. That once a month breast-check doctors advocate is not enough to tell you this information for sure. When you give your breasts a healthy, loving daily massage, you’ll know right on the minute if and when something isn’t quite right.

I find it best to incorporate breast-massage into my daily routine, both when I first roll out of bed and before bed. This helps the lymphatic system to draw away toxins and any waste products the breast tissue might excrete, or toxins from other parts of the body that are naturally drawn to embed in fatty tissue like the breasts. Here’s how you can safely massage your breasts and create a mental "map" of them both in your head and fingertips so you will be aware of any changes as they occur, every day:

  • Use the pads of your fingers to lift the breast tissue up and massage the crease beneath both breasts. This feels really good after taking your bra off, in addition to every morning and evening, when you want to make sure any sluggish bodily byproducts are massaged out of the breast tissue to be taken away by the lymph system.
  • Speaking of bras, don’t wear bras with metal underwires. In addition to cutting off your natural flow of energy at the breast, they dig in and compress acupuncture points, which can have deleterious effects on the immune system, liver, spleen, chest and breast tissue.
  • Take one breast in both hands and alternately compress the left and right hands around the tissue, working out towards the nipple from the chest wall. Move your hands into a slightly different position and continue until you feel "done". Repeat on the other breast. This feels really good, and will give you a good idea of where your natural "lumpiness" if any, lies.
  • Take one hand and massage the entire breast surface (making small circles then moving on a few fingerwidths to the next spot) in a clockwise motion, going outward from the nipple towards the chest wall in an ever-widening spiral.
  • Massage above the top of the breast, on the pectoral muscle. This as most of the above moves can be easily and quickly accomplished in the shower, with plenty of soap lather in lieu of massage oil, to ease friction on the sensitive breast tissue.
  • Lift both breasts, especially if heavy, and allow to remain suspended as high as you can lift them, for several minutes. Standing on your head if you’re an accomplished yogini, is the best way to accomplish this. Failing that, less limber gals can hang torsos upside down, off the end of our beds. Breasts love to "hang out in reverse" – opposite to the way they fall when we are upright.

Most of us just ignore our two best girlfriends, because they hang out under our chins all day every day anyway. Why pay special attention to them?  Why indeed! Think of having this increased good relationship with your body not so much as "breast cancer prevention", but "Breast Awareness" and promoting "Best Breast Health". Love your breasts completely, even if they’re not as big or small as you want them to be, even if they’re not "perfect". Few people are perfect, but you have the most perfect breasts for you that there will ever be. Appreciate them.

Here’s to our breasts – not a one of us would be alive without their wonderful nurture!